Some years ago, I decided to interview any elderly relative who would share family stories with me. I planned to tape and transcribe the conversations for the rest of the family.
Those who agreed to talk to me told me stories of wars, epidemics, natural disasters, and the early deaths of their children. (And no, they weren’t used to that in the old days any more than we are now.) They told me their stories and recounted stories they heard from their parents, and from their grandparents. They talked for hours, and I wrote everything down.
I was surprised by what I took away. I discovered that I had taken so much for granted about the lives of other people.
For the first time, I got a real sense of the anguish that historical events could cause when they played out in the lives of real people. I got a sense of the despair an Uncle felt as he recounted stories of growing up as a teenager during the Depression, I had never thought about the mantle of uncertainty he lived under-how he felt his life was on hold because he had no prospects- and how nobody around him knew when or even if the Depression would end, because nothing like it had ever happened before.
And in my extended conversations with my Mother about her family’s daily life during the Second World War, I got a kind of understanding of the fear and anxiety she lived with every day because no one knew how things would play out.
None one bit of this had occurred to me when I studied these things in school. There was no suspense; we already knew how the Depression and World War 2 would end. But it was different living through it. Which brings me to the present. Because this is where we are now.
Every day, I see draconian pandemic headlines in the newspaper and online that are geared to alarm people and gain readers, not to inform. We don’t need toxic nonsense like this in our lives. It’s useless. As Neils Bohr said, “prediction is very difficult, especially if it’s about the future.” But we humans have a deep-seated need to fill in the blanks. We have a hard time with uncertainty. Where does that leave us?
When the world seems enigmatic, it helps to be pragmatic. And creative. Theodore Roosevelt said “Do what you can, with what you’ve got, where you are.”
If ever there was a time for creative thinking, it is now. And people are creating. Dyson is making ventilators. Hospitals are developing ways to reuse N95 masks. There are many more examples. Like this one.
The innovators, the makers and the creative thinkers will help us to get through this. Creativity, coupled with effective leadership, and a rejection of ego-driven solutions are the best hope we have. Of course no one knows how this is going to play out. Don’t listen to those who claim to know and don’t forget to embrace your creative side.
Some more practical stuff:
Life coach and fellow creative Phyllis Mufson, @phyllismufson, recommends this article on health insurance for the newly-unemployed.
Here is another pattern for a face mask that has just four seams and no bias tape. Easy Sew Face Mask